I have always found the talk about SPARE MY disABILITY

I have always found the talk about disability rather a taboo and thought that explains why people would talk about it in low tones and kids get spanked when they look at/or even point at one. but the decoration on our streets has pushed me to do this. am not sure about how many people share my school of thoughts but anyway it takes one to start a conversation and two to keep it,

 let fate remember that I did my own. am born of a mum that is able-differently so partially I feel like I have the right to talk about such people, how many times in a day do you walk by the busy streets and notice disabled people painted as beggars and decorated with a 35 shillings manila paper containing a funny story about what happened to them, such has been the norm on our streets that most people don't give it a second thought and the rest do not even read past the second line and Besides all these there is this strong looking guy who stands there almost all day and once darkness falls they wrap up business for the day and assist this guy home and there is also this other group that you would find a strong guy pushing this disabled person on a wheelchair as they walk shop-by-shop begging but what I haven't been able to discover yet is this "always strong guy" pushing a beggar around are they family or just a person who is in a blue-color job and gets his dues from the daily collection. I fail to understand why you would push around a disabled person all day street by street, is that supposed to be your source of income or do you work at night and help this guy during the day..? is it not rather logical that you find a job and take care of this person..? or is begging much more paying than a day job..? don't you even feel the humiliation when you are turned back or do you refer to that as the norms of business..? I would love to understand this and I really hope someday I will realize the push behind this kind of work. personally I know that disabled people have a right to something, just because am born not like you it doesn't mean I cant make a choice of what I would do with my life, I have a right to decide what I want to do and I should not be viewed as a source of income to be displayed on busy streets to beg for money for you people. I think I have a right to life even when my life is viewed as a lesser life just because completeness is portrayed differently in me, I deserve to be treated with some little aspect of humanity and am only saying 'little' because you people think am not human enough. I ought to be treated with care even though life seem not to care about me. I deserve better than being placed on the scorching sun all day, imagine sited there, I take all the dust that's a combination of the saliva you people spit and the mad you gather while you tiptoe with shoes on the slums I live in honestly deserve better than this for humanity sake, am supposed to be human too.

Inspirational tips In Memory of love

Love was born many years ago in a little city called life and she grew up to become an emotion later she was enrolled into the school of thoughts and became a situation though she looked promising she lost her life at a tender age but we still remember her  calm, collected, thoughtful, admirable, life changing, sacrificial, understanding and many more traits. 

I really had told myself that I would not pen down an article of love gone soar...I have told myself that people really get what they set out looking for and that's why I have successfully only thought about love birds and an island or a beach coast somewhere in Atlanta or some inseparable beings holding hands in the street of Paris but for how long will I close my eyes to the situation that we find ourselves in every other day....?
When I turn up the volume of my now 12year-old radio and the first word is 'love triangle' I do not hesitate but find myself touching that dial because of the rage and anger it would build in me if I listen in for an extra second.
This very day a first year student is reported to have stabbed another student in this "love triangle" when he found him in the room of his supposed girlfriend. But that is not even the sad part but this psychopath actually did slide not once or twice but eight times a knife into the body of another human being..and I wonder was I really trying to explain to myself the kind of heart that extremist like AL Qaeda and AL Sheba have to set out in a killing rampage?  shouldn't I have rather thought about the kind of heart that i have that would not allow me slide a needle into the body of a blood donor..? isn't that a much easier assignment to spend lunch hour over a plate of gather doing....??
I fail to understand not because of the inability of my IQ to decode but because of the availability of a high IQ...I think it takes purely no brains to be able to decode such information and i mean no harm to those who have this understanding in their fingertips
I mean no harm to the person who believes there is true love-in absolutely mean no harm to people who are in love...I mean at least you have something maybe love might or might not be the exact word cox if the girl who chopped off his boyfriend genitals was in love and the two village girls who were fighting because of a man, and the bastard who stabbed his friend all were in love then am sorry to tell you all that you are not in love, because I have not yet seen you fight...
Until yesterday I thought love was kind, calm, and...(that word) but how wrong was I..my parish priest must be nodding in disbelief when he trips and falls into this article for the simple reason that I don't know what love is..but again what existed in books is not love because it's not physical, it doesn't kill, it's  not violent, it's not suicidal...that is not love....
Why would you kill because of someone who is not tattooed in your bloodstream, is it really anger that this people can't manage, or wits that they don't contain, is it that love is a matter of life and death or Jesus got the wrong version of it....he should have rather killed for it and not die for love....
I no longer don't know what to think and sited on the back sit of this train home I think I just need to book a ride off to the sun.....it's must be much colder there

inspirational Tip ME & KIDS



I just feel I should say this just in case the mother of my kids trips and falls into this article, she knows what to expect and what not to expect from me. i have very reserved feelings and emotions about kids that most of the times I don't even experience hardship in realizing those that have found a soft spot in my heart and those that haven't.

 I would call it the decision of nature that some kids aren't my perfect company while others i would give my life up-to. I think children are angels and should always be treated as such so when one mistreats an angel I feel offended and most people need to draw the line between people who hate kids and those who don't like kids. It is one thing not to like something and completely a different thing to hate it... 'lIKE' from the simple Google translation mean : to enjoy (something) : to get pleasure from (something) : to regard (something) in a favorable way : to feel affection for (someone) and hate on the other hand really mean intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury, i personally do not have any fear, anger or sense of injury towards kids its only that I do not find myself regarding some kids in a favorable way. I would forgive anyone who is living in abject poverty because they are trying to give a good life to their kids, I would forgive women who do prostitution just to be able to put a meal in the table for their kids, I would even forgive someone who steals from people just for the sole purpose of feeding their kids, but one thing that i would never forgive is someone who puts the life of a kid at stake for their own happiness. i would never forgive a people who connive to abort a child neither will I ever support a mother who ends the life of a kid for the fear that she cannot manage the kid's would rather you throw that kid away than kill it because abortion does not stop you from being a mother it only makes you a mother of a dead child. killing to me is killing whether you push a pen knife through someone's throat or you take some med to take away the life of a fetus you all stand in the same line or murderers, people who have no heart and don't care about anything else rather than themselves. I will end this way....if we all could see the world through the eyes of the kids, we would see the magic in everything by that I can give up my own happiness for the sake of my kids than give up their own life for the sake of my own happiness.

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

I don't what the books of history to remember that you came for a weekend with a pair of extra clothing and you never went back to your place....
I don't want our marriage to begin with "dad told me to go back where I slept...."
I don't really want our marriage to be like any other city marriage where you first move in together so that you can cost share the rent then  before you realize it you have shared everything in the quest to save on.
 
Steve mike
I want my marriage to you to begin with that talk with your dad, I want to get containers full of the traditional liquor and those long "marinas" for everyone in your village to have a taste of it, I want to invite all my family elders to your place to come and negotiate on the number of goats and cows I will pay as dowry before you move to my place...I want them to lock themselves in that tiny hut as your people count the degrees you have and my people try to negotiate back that's how I want it before I finally bring you to my house...
I want us to spread white sheets before we sleep and as we wake up, we look at the fruits of our labor.

I want my marriage to bear the traditional touch but born out of modern ideology, I just want us to be different.....is that too much to ask in a society where the government is striving to make a 6months cost sharing deal, a marriage.
In a society where women no longer cook like their mothers but rather drink like their fathers?!
In a society where women are dying to be treated like queens when they are busy acting like kings...
In a society where men are thought to be dogs because other women can't keep their legs crossed!!
Is that too much to ask????I want to walk you down the aisle before i walk you down to bed's want you to move in with me as a wife and not just an acquaintance with whom i can save some coins.

I want to go down on one knee to ask for your hand in marriage before i bend to do anything else..
life is so ruff and tuff that sometimes i wonder where do we apply or rather use all the lessons we pick from here....is there some place maybe after we are all gone that you will need all the skills we picked from planet earth or does it end with that village preacher saying "understandable"
if that is all that happens and ends with people throwing pieces of hard soil on your grave then am a disappointed man....am a man full of rage and anger at all the lessons have learn and all the wrong people that came my way to teach me how to handle the right people that never came my way. am angry at that bank manager who posed as my financial advisor and lied to me that I should save  and spare my hard earned money for tomorrow....a day that never came by....am angry at that  all those politician who used me and lied to me that I am the leader of tomorrow.....tomorrow that I never lived to see...
am an angry man, am angry cozy I was too busy building my tomorrow  that I forgot to live today....I was so busy dying to do so many things that I never lived to do anything....
but who do I blame....??? is it myself  for being so ignorant or everybody else who took advantage of my ignorance....
just who really is responsible


Tips To have A Better Communication with people


yesterday I was called to give a talk on a certain occasion that was meant to motivate the attendees and i really was not prepared to do that, as i found my way to the podium i was thinking what would I tell all this young men who wee pregnant with expectation, until the thought of my experience and encounters hit me and i knew that i had the best experience.possibly you would find some few lessons from this.


am barely 23 years old but the things have gone through are really worth learning from no matter how old or young you are. since i was in college, i went to study mass communication and journalism, i had been living with two brothers in the same single room house, until one of them moved and we were left with the eldest, somewhere along the journey another friend moved in with us and mind you both were working and I was the only one not working.

i was born in a family that was not well off though we always had food on our table except when we dint, so my way through college i barely managed to finish, I still haven't graduated three years down the line but am not complaining, i thank God for everything.


so one of the roommates started drinking so much that he could go a week without coming back home, until one morning he texted us and said he needed to stay along therefore we should move out. At the time we were in good times with this other guy so we found another house and rented him paying the rent since i was not working. we had a good time together until one June Saturday morning this guy called me and told me that his sister who had just given birth would be moving in with him and she could not take the couch with the baby so i should find a place to move to.

i can remember vividly that evening when i went to my mum to inform her on the occurrence and the first thing she asked me was "where are your clothes?" then she told me "settle in God is preparing

you for a blessing"

until today I have not forgotten her words because each of those happened to me.

at this time I use to get weekly deliveries which earned me 200 a week. but to me it was much more than nothing at all.


on the 27th of June I got a call from one of my uncles at exactly 0651hrs and all he said was " there is a temporary job at Mahindra  along Mombasa road, someone has gone on leave and they need an urgent replacement  so you need to be there by 0700hrs.

i couldn't sleep anymore went there and was given a contract running up to 3 weeks after which she would come back from leave and i would go by my idling business as usual.


at Mahindra i did my best, possibly all that I could, I knew that it doesn't matter how much time you spent with people make sure you do it right and leave a mark.

after  my three weeks i went back to the Hr to ask for my payment and see if she could extend my terms of contract since some new toilets had been built and at that point i would mind any type of work as long as it earned me money. the only reply I got was "if we need you we will call you"

i knew it was a lie so i was glad that i had worked for three weeks at 1000 bob per day was too much for someone who earned 200 a week.



on Sunday evening we caught up with a friend who offered to buy us one of those cheap alcohol that i have never forgotten until today, it was the first time ever that i went to my mum's house dead drunk, at least I dint have an option, but that's not important as of now.



the next day i switched on my phone at around 8:30am and less than 15 minutes on i got a call from the Hr department xylems motors asking whether i could report to work, i just told the person on the other end to give me 30 minutes and I would be there and on arrival i was allocated to the washrooms, for a two months contract I worked and worked and did my best until the contract kept being extended until December. Now this was the beginning of my troubles.


on 24th December a day after we closed for the December holidays, i was with two of my friends catching some fun after the Christmas eve mass. And at around 0100 hrs as we were shifting from a club to another we met head on with a gang of robbers who surrounded us, robbed us of cash and mobile phones and we escaped with injuries, so you bet i never celebrated Christmas, i was nursing wounds at home, at least my girlfriend then was there with me, consoling me and playing my doctor and lucky enough by 27th I had recovered well and was now 98% okay.but then this was just the beginning of a whole new phase of my life.the other part of my life and experience comes up in the second phase.

the teaching tips that show you the vals of love

Now two days after the valentines I have gain the courage to talk about the day that was and the times that should have been .to-date valentine is a lot more harder than it ever was with all the color and flashy adverts running on TV. I have always hated valentine's day, even when I am in love it has always tortured me, I never felt the kind of love and togetherness that is described in all this abundant commercials. am constantly under my own pressure not to under perform
in the eyes of the society, a society that knows not a thing about the bruises I have because of this emotion called love, a society that constantly mounts pressure on me to be a gentleman but sharpen my wits on the contrary. I have always hated the fact that I have to be all sweet and nice and a spendthrift just because the society demands' have always hated the fact that even the closest to my heart expects me to be what the worlds wants me to be. I have always wished I would find the kind of love that is worth a night at villa Rosa Kempis that goes for only 5.4 million. I have always wished that I would find someone who was in love with me as much as I was with them and that inability literary hurts my chest every time am reminded of my lonesome condition but some part of me has refused to believe that I want to give up on love and treat all the ladies with utmost tenderness and care. some part of me still yearns for the public display of affection, that carefree holding of hands in the streets and just sitting beside each other talking about nothing in particular, some part of me still believes that women should be treated like roses though most of them behave like cactus, those that the tighter you hold to the more you bleed. I have accepted that I cannot find the kind of love that I have always desired, that only which exists in my head because am too caring to allow anyone touch the most vulnerable parts of the heart of a lion that am supposed to be. but I know this sounds foolish, that a man could guard his heart, I know its sound feminine that you would stay off the path of love for the fear of love but then again My advice to those who are guarded and afraid of being hurt like I am - Be braver than I proved to be and let love in! Your heart will certainly ache if you never submit to being loved; So, take the chance that you might get hurt, and improve your odds of finding the love that completes your life. When you do....I believe you will.... find your perfect partner- love without restraint, and love in extra measures in honor of those who will never know your joy. valentine is rubbish but don't forget to show someone some love before you think of such nonsense.

See why corruption is bred everyday

when I knocked into the government office to ask for service they all told me "you know how government works, you need to push this.." then they all laughed when I rolled up my sleeves and said I was naive. when the local traffic police officer stopped me because I had not buckled up my seat belt and asked me to get him tea, then he got angry when I reached into the backseat of my car and handed him the flask full of tea that my wife had packed me, I was shocked but he rather said I was very rude.
I was not born in the city but back in the village where tea is tea, I was raised in the real society where people call spades, spades and not big spoons and too bad the city is not my place, they speak in tongues and no one to inter prate. when they saw a bug eating into the government corpus they called it politics but me? am old school to the core so I call it corruption. When we spent our precious time in the election we think we are getting people to lead us but to them we have given them a chance to eat. everyone thinks that they have a portion of the national cake that is baked with corruption that they all must eat. yesterday I was flipping through a week's old newspaper in my house you understand with the current economic times normal people don't buy daily papers but all the same as I was waiting for my wife to get us a meal and I was shocked that she actually had to bribe my son to do her homework. I was left with utter dismay because the kid demanded pre -payment basically the local politician came to mind, he must have been a kid like my son and brought up by a mother like my son and I realized that actually it's not there problem it's the upbringing, it's us mothers and fathers who nurture corruption. we instill in kids virtues that are uprightly wrong then later in life stand at high-mast podiums and condemn them. we are so keen to look at the dirty ocean than we are looking at the streams, tributaries and rivers whose water is already dirty before it flows in. the apple as we all know does not fall far from the tree atheist as far as corruption is concerned so if our people are corrupt then the country is built on the foundation of it and unless we uproot that we can never clean the ocean when the river is dirty. if only we concentrated on the foundation then we would not worry about the structure. Let's not be the psychopaths who live in glass houses but are too busy throwing stones. Let all nurture the present and the future will take care of its self.

23 teaching word of wisdom that will make your son greater future

I thought I should share this also WORDS OF WISDOM FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE.
1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent. 6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.
12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.
13. My son, your mother, A sake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man? 15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.
18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.
21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

 23. My son, pray with your fame
lily, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday...

15 Teaching Set Of People You Should Meet In 2016

What a long period without a post here, am sorry my dear beloved readers, I have really missed you all, and even at my off line mood I still had you all at heart.

So Hello,Welcome Readers? How is your 2016 going? Hope you have found other inspiring Teaching articles on our achieve to keep you busy? Oh you don’t know where to locate the achieve? While using a PC view on our right side-bar and you will see DRAW OUT OUR CABINET, then on mobile simply scroll down and you will see it. A lot of Teaching post waiting for you to read them
Going straight to what I have for you guys today, It’s simply short but more descriptive in nature that you should be aware of, so getting hold of this post I had a few touches to it and am here to deliver it to you all.  Today I will be unveiling 15 set of people you should meet in 2016 and how to label them. *winks

1. The ENCOURAGE RS
- Even in discouraging situations of life, these people keep you going with encouraging words; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

2. The HAND LIFTERS
– These are set of individuals whose hands are strong enough to hold yours up when you are weak; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

3. DESTINY HELPERS - They provide shoulders upon which you ride to fulfilling your dream and destiny, they come and stand like a pillar to you actualizing your dream; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

4. The GIVERS - These ones will give all their time, talent, and ideas to you in your hour of need, these set of people are really hard to find; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

5. The RECEIVERS
– As its ever known, “You can’t be blessed if you don’t give, and you can’t give if there is no one to receive”. Not all lands bring forth fruits, and not all hands that receive command blessings. You need those whose receiving hands will trigger abundant blessings unto you; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

6. The PRAYER CONQUERORS - You need more than prayer warriors IN 2016. Many Prayer warriors pray from their heads only; Prayer conquerors pray from their heart and conquer, prayer is still a vital key to living a prosperous life. I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

7. The RECOMMENCES – These sets of people are the ones who mention your name in quarters where your skills and talents will be celebrated; At this point I will love to say thanks to everyone that has been recommending me to anyone who wants to design a website, in turn this has been a blessing to me, so on this I am a living witness.

8. The CORRECTOR S - These are the ones who honestly tell you when you are wrong; they prevent you from digging a grave of mistakes that may bury your destiny, I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

9. The COMMITTED – These sets of friends are Golds, whether things are up or down, these ones are standing with you; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

10. The LOYAL - They work with you with all of their hearts to make things work in your life, shout out to all my Loyal friends, love you all from Onyebuchi. I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

11. The TRUTH-TELLERS – A wise man once said “don’t comfort people with lies”, These set of friends are far from fake friends they will not call night day, and day night; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

12. The ALTRUISTS – These Set of people are also called humanitarians, Do-goobers and Philanthropists, these ones believe that life is not just about them, it is about you too; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

13. The RELIABLE – Just like the the label, they are the steadfast associates, the unswerving friends. You can count on them when it counts most I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

14. The CONTENTED
- These sets of people are not greedy, they are satisfied with whatever they get from you and they bless you from their heart for it; I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

15. The LOVERS and PURSUERS of GOD & GODLY LIFE - These ones are always connected to God; they keep a constant connection between you and God (interceding) so you will never be disconnected from your source who is your MAKER. I Pray when you meet these sets of people you don’t lose them.

#Success is a collection and network of Relationships. There are those who matter to your life; there are those whom your life also matters to!. I enter into the Lord's strong room of prayers this morning of 1st APRIL, 2016 and declare: May you experience the blessing, favor and Dignity OF DIVINE CONNECTIVITY all-round IJN. Amen…

3 Teaching Principles To Managing Teenage Problems

Hello readers! Its another inspiring article from your lovely online Inspirational Library, we are glad that you can now still get our awesome messages at www.iconloaded.com We thank you all for being there for us. Keep the sharing and thanks for visiting.
 
Going to the topic before us, I will like to break out few keywords from the title, which are "Principle, Managing and lastly Teenage"
 
Principle: As we all know is "principle I guess" funny, what was the reply I got from someone when I once asked that question! But principle breaks the chain of being just principle, it is regarded as a UNIVERSAL TRUTH... Facts fade but principles remains
 
Managing: simply means succeeding in achieving something or surviving despite difficult circumstances. Lastly on our title keyword its
Teenage: what do we really mean by teenage or the general word teenager. From a Wikipedia search we got  this "A teenager, or teen, is a young person whose age falls within the range from 13–19. They are called teenagers because their age number ends with "teen". Someone aged 18 or 19 is also considered a young adult."
 
Now with all this words perfectly analyzed guess will should now define our title now, which we be, Three universal truths to surviving or striving through problems from the ages of 13-19 that will make you be considered as a matured young adult.
 
1. Don't Ever Underestimate/Exaggerate
This is one of the very 1st handling method every teenage should know and adapt to. When teens are faced with problems or issue of life they either underestimate the problem or exaggerate the problem...
Situations like this frustrates as the teenage brain can hardly adapt to an excess of pressure nor lest pressure, anytime the teenage Brain think lesser by underestimating, it thinks the wrong way, anytime there is an excess pressure too, it goes the farther wrong avenue, this principles urges every teenage to "Play situation to the average and Pray it high up".
 
2. Work with the IPDE method
Hmm! What is the IPDE method! Yea this is a method prescribed by +Robertson. The IPDE handling steps is another way in-which teenagers can manage their problem. Let's see how..
I-- Identify Your Problem: This is one issue that teenagers never care to understand, there must be something causing that opera in their lives. The simple way of doing this is simply by illuminating, asking yourself "what really is my problem".

P-- Predict: Predict what this problem will do to you if you underestimate or exaggerate your problem
D-- Decision: decisions as they say make up life, after predicting, decide on your response from all positive options and alternatives
E-- lastly execute the most positive option that you can imagine daily..
The last method a teenage individual or a teen can use in husbanding his problem is  by
 
3. Use the Bait/Communication method:
What his a bait method you want to know, Baiting is simply luring someone or something with what you know will attract them!
You need a good grade?? Then get your book and read, meet older and intelligent friends to teach you.. By doing this you have successfully lured good grades to yourself...
Another method here is simply the simple means of communicating..
This is a really simple but hard method, but when you make up your mind and identify your real close friends, then you can start sharing your problems with them! Do you need help? Then ask it, don't be proud but personally I will advice you to watch those who you share your problems with... If you can have real people to talk with about your problem then this is the most effective way a teen can manage his problems..
I earnestly pray these steps help every teen reading this now, have problem with any of this methods/ways? Kindly drop your comments. Thanks

Top 3 Teaching Tips To Start Your week



Hi guys, happy Sunday & how was your weekend ? How are you fairing with the storms of life?
Today I will be sharing with you guys 3 motivating tips to start your new week with!
Every new week holds lovely tasks, gifts, amazing moments and new connections! So start your wee with the following Teaching tips will make your week more memorable and successful to you than mere start it and ending it as if nothing ever happened.

1. Start Every Week With A Different Mindset
Starting your week with a different mind-set,
is a step ahead of having a wonderful week, that will be filled of amazing results!
So guys, as you start this week, I advice you this week with a different mind-set, that this week will be your best week, it will be one of the best from the rest, rearrange your attitude for the week and see how amazing it will be for you!

2. Start Every New Week With A Vision!
Having a vision for the week, simply means, having a goal you Teach toward as you go down the week!
When starting a new week, it is advisable to sketch out your to-do plans, set them as your vision for the week, and put in restless activities and strategies to make that vision a fulfilled when, a vision is just a plan when on paper, and a reality when its being carried out!
So dear readers, as you start this week, I advice you start your new week by having a simple goal for yourself, and you will be glad how you amazingly accomplished these tasks even with your day-to-day routes. 

3. Lastly, Be A Giver
Yes, this is one lovely part that everyone wants to shy away from doing.
A giver gain more than the receiver, being a giver place you in the train way of getting more bountiful harvest. Rather than hoarding your pocket from give try to give little from it.Ä A mentor of will say "when you give, you solve someone's problem" yes this is a critical game plan to start your week with.
Will starting your week, try to keep aside some cents for giving purposes, this isn't really easy but to having an amazing week, try to be a giver and you will wonder how your week became so blessed even with less work load.
So guys, what's your say? From ONYEBUCHI to you, as you start this week have a different mindset, have a simple vision for the week and lastly don't stop yourself from giving. This Teaching steps can be this short and easy but it stands as slot of people bedrock to a successful week which start from Monday.

Now over to you, what do you think will make people have Amazing week too? Your own. Tips are highly welcomed by kindly using the comment box; so easy as that. And again don't forget to share because someone on your own circle might be wanting to read something like this, so be a giver in this method too. Thanks